There are a lot of things to consider when you’re planning to get involved in egg donation, whether as a donor or as a recipient. From an early stage in the process, it’s important to look carefully at your choices for agencies to work with.
Some places might have more options available than others. Regardless of what you may be comparing each agency to, you’ll want to make sure that any organization you’re thinking of working with is both reputable and a good fit for you. Knowing what to look for and what questions to ask will help you to be confident you’re starting off on the right foot.
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History/background: Along with finding out how long they’ve been in operation, you can check whether or not they’ve done business under other names or in other places. There’s nothing necessarily wrong with new agencies, but see how well they’ve established themselves in whatever time they’ve been around. They should also be compliant with FDA regulations and with the American Society for Reproductive Medicine guidelines.
Aside from that, you might want to find out more about the owners are there people in the company who’ve dealt with infertility themselves? Do they have connections to a referring doctor? If you’ve been referred, make sure you can trust that it’s good for you as well as for the referrer.
Past performance: Ask about how many matches they’ve made, and about whether the donors listed as available are already donating for someone else. If you can, talk to past donors and recipients about their experience.
Fee policies: Both sides need to be clear from the beginning what the fees cover, what isn’t covered, and when fees need to be paid (by recipients) or are paid out (to donors).
Contract standards: The agency should have a legal agreement available for both sides to sign. Either side might want flexibility to change it or make their own arrangements, though. The final agreement needs to account for problems like the donor backing out during the process or either side otherwise not living up to the agreement. It also needs to define for future reference the relationships between parents, donor, and child. If the parents and a known donor want an ongoing relationship, that should be laid out.
Donor screening/matching process: Recipients especially will want to get a feel for how much effort the agency might put into making a match for them. They’ll also want to know what kind of screening and ongoing check-ins the donors have been through, and whether the agency has met with them personally. Some agencies might provide insurance for the event of medical complications. This should be well defined.
Record management: Recipients will also want to find out how extensive the agency’s records are, and how they manage information on donors, including what might happen to that information if the agency closes. This tends to be important in case any questions or concerns come up in the future.
Whether you’re thinking of donating or of getting help becoming pregnant, egg donation is an emotional time. Try not to let that overwhelm you. Keeping all of the above factors in mind will help you make the best decision possible.